Romance and drama are two things that always seem to find their way onto the internet, even though most people know better than to put their most personal stories online. Still, there are always those who can’t resist oversharing, and for one Arizona woman and TikToker, this meant turning her love for her psychiatrist into an ongoing public saga. Kendrahilty, as she’s known on TikTok, has shared her story across more than 10 parts, and it’s still far from over.
According to her videos, it all began when Kendrahilty was looking for a psychiatrist to help her manage her ADHD. In the very first installment of her story, she openly admitted that she was attracted to her psychiatrist and even suggested that she might be in love with him, calling him attractive and charming. The Arizona woman claimed that he acted “friendly” and seemed to “get close to her,” describing how their once-a-month sessions always left her feeling special. At one point, she even accused him of trying to manipulate her by alternating between being warm and distant, saying his favorite tactic was what she called “weaponized neutrality.”
Kendrahilty also alleged that her psychiatrist used personal information from their sessions to manipulate and exploit her. Despite all of this, she admitted several times that she was obsessed with him and that she often overshared inappropriate details during their sessions. In her mind, the fact that he never stopped her from doing so was proof that he was playing some sort of manipulative game. It’s also worth noting that throughout this entire situation, she had a boyfriend, which only added another layer of complexity to her claims.
Things escalated when Kendrahilty went too far and actually revealed the psychiatrist’s full name on TikTok. This led some of her followers to track down his identity, and after this happened, the Arizona woman quickly turned off the comment section on her videos. That didn’t stop the rest of the internet from discussing her, however.
While there were people who defended her and believed her story, plenty of others were skeptical. Many users argued that her account was one-sided and that the entire drama was less about misconduct and more about a woman scorned because her psychiatrist never reciprocated her feelings.
One user commented, “That lady has more issues than Vogue. I don’t believe a single thing coming out of her mouth.” Another pointed out that Kendrahilty seemed completely fixated on him, saying she was “just full-on obsessed with him and trying to drag him through the mud.” They even highlighted how she admitted to wearing tortoise-shell glasses in her videos because he had once told her he liked them, as if this were a deliberate signal to him.
Another Redditor wrote, “Her entire story just screams of someone who projected and created a narrative around her psychiatrist and is now deeply frustrated and embarrassed that it didn’t become reality.”